It was a cloudy evening. I was sitting on back seat my senior Mr Vishwas Dabral's MR RX135. We were coming form GR ( general Ragging). My face ws red (because of 40+ Mr slaps). But I wasn’t feeling bad at all, in fact enjoying the cool ride. Ragging period was one of the best period of my college life. Not because I enjoyed being slapped or I enjoy following fundas, but because it was the only time during college life when i share brotherhood feeling with 30+ friends of my batch.
I still remember the words MR Dabral told me during that ride
" Dekh logon ko 2 tarah se unite kiya ja sakta hain.
1. Sab logon ko bahut enjoy karo sath main. Roz party karwao.
2. Sab logon ko sath main suffer karwao.
Jab tak kisi ko extream condition tak nahi le jate tab tak wo log unite nahi honge.
par pahele tarike main ek problem hain. Pahel tarike main chote chote groups ban jate hain. Dusare tarike main 40-50 logon ka ek bada group banaya ja sakta hai. Aur isliye hi seniors hum logon ki ragging lete hain "
I really felt that he was honestly sharing his views with me. Though his views sound opposite to the popular belief, but i felt it to be very true.
An army training is one such example. Normal boys (Cadets) belonging to different parts of India, who doesn’t know each other, becomes formidable army where fellow solider comes before one selves. During initial days they curse and use all sorts for words for their trainer. As they start sharing their sufferings, they become a team.
This fact is very well used be Kabir Khan (SRK in ChakDe India). He realized that the first thing that gals should learn is to play as a team, without which individual brilliance does not matter (fortunately or unfortunately that was also missing).
He gave a very tough time to all gals.. He used foul language. He made fun of their inabilities. In the night all the gals were tired and full of anger. They decided against their coach and signed an application requesting Hockey federation to change the coach.
And this exactly what Kabir khan wanted. He wants gals to stand for one cause, even for the wrong one.
One can learn skills. One can formulate strategies. But to learn team skills is very difficult. Surely one can play team games, can attained seminars, but these things helps when the goal is not big enough as in the case of corporate project. But for the bigger goals, the only way is the way through SUFFERING.
I still remember the words MR Dabral told me during that ride
" Dekh logon ko 2 tarah se unite kiya ja sakta hain.
1. Sab logon ko bahut enjoy karo sath main. Roz party karwao.
2. Sab logon ko sath main suffer karwao.
Jab tak kisi ko extream condition tak nahi le jate tab tak wo log unite nahi honge.
par pahele tarike main ek problem hain. Pahel tarike main chote chote groups ban jate hain. Dusare tarike main 40-50 logon ka ek bada group banaya ja sakta hai. Aur isliye hi seniors hum logon ki ragging lete hain "
I really felt that he was honestly sharing his views with me. Though his views sound opposite to the popular belief, but i felt it to be very true.
An army training is one such example. Normal boys (Cadets) belonging to different parts of India, who doesn’t know each other, becomes formidable army where fellow solider comes before one selves. During initial days they curse and use all sorts for words for their trainer. As they start sharing their sufferings, they become a team.
This fact is very well used be Kabir Khan (SRK in ChakDe India). He realized that the first thing that gals should learn is to play as a team, without which individual brilliance does not matter (fortunately or unfortunately that was also missing).
He gave a very tough time to all gals.. He used foul language. He made fun of their inabilities. In the night all the gals were tired and full of anger. They decided against their coach and signed an application requesting Hockey federation to change the coach.
And this exactly what Kabir khan wanted. He wants gals to stand for one cause, even for the wrong one.
One can learn skills. One can formulate strategies. But to learn team skills is very difficult. Surely one can play team games, can attained seminars, but these things helps when the goal is not big enough as in the case of corporate project. But for the bigger goals, the only way is the way through SUFFERING.
